Ibookgigs, 54

I am just a normal human being who is out looking to find the man of my dreams. I believe in being friends before anything else happens. I am one to take things very slow and not RUSH into any type of relationship. I am drama free and I thrive on positivity. I love my friends and my family and I also enjoy music and travel and nature and many other things in life.

I am also fixing to better myself by becoming a member of the working world again. I have been on disabiltiy for 10 yrs and I am sooo ready to get off of it and make something of myself. I am not disabled at all. I can do anything. I do have a medical condition that requires me to take medication. This doesn't mean anti-depressants..I do NOT take those. But I do take medication on a daily basis. Therefore I need to find me a job wth medical bennies.

I have no kids and its just me and myself and I. There is nothing stopping me from doing whatever I want to do in life. And my goal in life is to be somebody and do something with my life and find the man of my dreams to help me become somebody.

I do alot of charity work and volunteer work in my spare time because I love to help people. I also am involved in SWIM (Syracuse Women in Music) as a promoter. I promote bands to come play for charity events. For example Breast Cancer, Ovarian Cancer etc etc. I enjoy what I do because I love music. Music is a passion of mine and its my life and my drug of choice. I am not a movie or a TV person. But will sacrifice listening to it for noise..Life is mean't to be lived, not to be sitting in front of the Television all day.

I have no time for head games or men who lie to me. I am very honest and upfront here in my profile and I expect the same from you. I have been hurt in the past and I am just very cautious today. I would rather be single than be miserable. I am not a jealous or a control freak and I expect my partner to be the same way. Good Luck and I hope I am the one you catch.