Mzlovely20, 34

I'm a single mother looking for a good man who would love to have a woman who wants to be cherished. I'm young but I've experienced a lot of trials and tribulations in my life and I know what I want. I want someone who's honest,loving,caring,smart etc. I love to cook I'm going to school to become a chef I wanna have my own business one day. I love to write and read books. I love football I'm a big COLTS fan! I've been single a whole year and I'm ready to find someone. I love music all kinds. I have an 8 month old baby girl she's my life and I wanna be able to give her want she needs and wants. I also go to church so I am spiritual. I learned this in my life and I'm only 20 but I learned a lot of lessons. Love works. It is life's most powerful motivation and has far greater depth and meaning than most people realize. It always does what is best for others and can empower us to face the greatest of problems. We are born with a lifelong thirst for love. Our hearts desperately need it like our lungs need oxygen. Love changes our motivation for living. Relationships become meaningful with it. No marriage is successful with out it.

Love is built on two pillars that best define what it is. Those pillars are patience and kindness. All other characteristics of love are extensions of these two attributes. And that's where you begin. With patience.

Love will inspire you to become a patient person. When you choose to be patient, you respond in a positive way to a negative situation. You are slow to anger. You choose to have a long fuse instead of a quick temper. Rather than being restless and demanding, love helps you settle down and begin extending mercy to those around you. Patience brings an internal calm during an external storm.

No one likes to be around an impatient person. It cause you to overreact in angry, foolish, and regrettable ways. The irony of anger toward a wrongful a